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Episode 34: The Defining One

We hope you’re ready to go steady with this podcast.

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But whether you are or aren’t, Ali & Roark are here to talk all about defining the relationship (the DTR talk). After being asked this question a whole bunch, they finally break down the concept what it means to be “exclusive.”

Also, they discuss how to initiate a DTR and how to handle it if it doesn’t go your way.

In the personal updates arena, Ali talks about her France trip and introduces a man from her past who recently made a reappearance, and Roark and the Classmate hit a relationship milestone: the first time someone gets sick.

Timestamps: Weird or Nah and Topic Talk begin at around 22:45

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2 replies on “Episode 34: The Defining One”

I liked the conversation about the difference between being exclusive and being in a relationship, the fact that they can be different statuses.
What about long distance? I’m interested in someone currently at the other side of the country. She doesn’t want to do a LDR officially , but we’ve both got feelings.

I’m not sure what’s going on. Are we long term committing without any relationship to go along with it ?

Hi, Mike! So glad you liked the episode :). We get into long distance a little bit in this conversation, but have a fuller episode planned on the topic. We also have a podcast suggestion form if you’d like to ask us your question directly! You can find it at

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